BTM Young Men - MONDAY and WEDNESDAY Sessions
Mentors understand this paragraph and ask the question
Ask students to name the one thing that is of paramount importance to them. Elicit from students the following key points that were taught in this lesson: The things you value influence everything you do. Decide what things you value and make choices based on them. Stay true to your beliefs in your actions. Make decisions that are aligned with the rules that you live by. Conclusion (2 minutes)
Ask mentees these questons
1. List three values that are important to you. Explain how these values influence your actions.
2. Explain what is meant by the saying "To thine own self be true."
3. On whose values is self-respect based?
4. What about the respect of others?
1. Ask students to write down their expectations.
Offer examples such as the following: I’ll learn to make better decisions. I’ll learn how to use my time more efficiently. ect...
2. Students discuss how they will acquire life skills.
(Students should mention that it’s best to learn by doing and practicing.)
Ask students to review their expectations and to consider how well they’ll meet those expectations if they don’t practice the skills. Ask students how well they will succeed if they only sit in their seats and listen to you talk and watch others develop these life skills. Encourage discussion.
Conclude by emphasizing that Overcoming Obstacles is a course about life. Explain that you will help every student relate the skills and activities to their own life, but it’s ultimately up to each student to practice the skills in order to master them.
Mentor Reflections:
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